10 Ways To Keep Your Relationship Spicy
Marriage is great, but damn it's easy to fall into a bland routine. Don't worry! I still love Roger (98% of the time LOL), but I'm always thinking about ways we can spice up our relationship, keep things hotter than a flaming hot cheeto (which is probably the best chip of all time fyi). How about...
1. Plan a staycation
We love Greyson and Meilani, so taking an actual vacation would be heart-wrenching (maybe when they're a bit older, we'll revisit some of our favorite Jersey Shore haunts). But a staycation is perfect! We can chill out together while a sitter watches the kids. Relaxation. A yummy, healthy home-cooked meal. Quality time together. Sounds like a perfect day!
2. Morning sex
Between late night feedings and everything else we've got going on, carving out time for sex is near impossible. Our solution is to just wake up and do the deed. Sexy. Spicy. And easy cleanup with a quick shower after.
3. Work out together
Few things get me going like seeing Roger pump some iron and sweat it out. I definitely tend to notch up the treadmill speed when he's around.
4. Clean the house "together"
I'm perfectly fine watching someone else clean the house for a change. LMAO
5. Sexy Date Night
Boobs up and ass out in an outfit that makes him remember just how hawt his wife is. But seriously, having a romantic dinner at a fancy restaurant can be realy special.
6. Flirt
Have you noticed how couples seem to stop flirting after they get married? What the F is that about?! Flirting is fun and can really turn your partner on. So flirt away!
7. Sex-position-of-the-day calendar
This was Roger's idea. What a surprise. HAHA
8. Couple's massage
This is like a spicy-sweet one. Make sure he massages you first so he doesn't cop out and go to sleep! Step up your game guys.
9. Look at wedding pictures
I dunno if this is necessarily spicy, but it always makes me happy. That counts, right?
10. Spontaneous sex
My favorite spice of all. ;-)
