You Don't Need a Man to Have the Perfect Orgasm... Trust Us. Just Follow Our Trusty How-To Guide

We have some good news and some bad news for you about your orgasms. You may think you've had an orgasm before but it's totally possible that what you experienced, wasn't actually one. You were possibly very close to climax and because you've never had an orgasm you thought, wow that's great, but the sad truth is, the majority of women haven't orgasmed before! 

The good news is after reading this you're going to become a pro at making yourself tick. You'll be having orgasms on the daily and wonder what men are for! If you want to have a real orgasm, the one where your toes curl, your body gets unbelievably hot, where your back arches, and a moan slips from your lips, look no further.Eliminate distractions and find a place that is comfortable for you to masturbate. During a bath or in bed before going to sleep are great options! Find somewhere you are completely comfortable both physically and mentally. Be in a place where you're able to relax your body and get in the mood. Part of achieving an orgasm is thinking erotically and imagining yourself having one.

Next find a vibrator that works for you! Most women achieve orgasms by stimulating the clitoris (over penetration) so a vibrator may be the best way to build up to your orgasm. If you're just starting out, staying in bed with one of these vibrators may help you climax. Use a little bit of lube too for easier movements.

So what to do after you get a vibrator? Figure out how to use it! Does pure clitoral stimulation (C-Spot) work for you or do you need some G-Spot stimulation too? There's no way to figure out what makes you tick if you don't keep trying. Using different techniques like side to side strokes, circling the clit, or a diagonal stroke could be all the difference! Practice makes perfect. In this case practicing will help you figure out your trigger spots and what makes you go "O". 

Remember to be patient! You might not orgasm the first time you masturbate but it's okay. Figure out how to build yourself up! Most of the time it'll take a good 20 minutes before you reach climax. A few tips to help yourself get to the big "O" are doing things prior to or during masturbation. Watching porn is helpful for women (not just men) when masturbating. These women are professionals and know how to orgasm for a living; it might be good to watch a video to learn masturbation techniques. You can watch to learn tricks or find a scene to turn you on. If you don't feel comfortable watching porn that's okay but more people do than they care to admit. If not porn, try a playlist with erotic songs or beats that will help you build up to a climax. Music has a way of playing with our emotions and helping us feeling hot is one of them. Use this to your advantage!

Doing some stretches and practicing tantric yoga once you start masturbating will help you achieve more orgasms overall. Tantric yoga is about harnessing sexual energy rather than expelling it, so you can channel the energy for longer and more intimate orgasms. That means the sensation of an orgasm doesn't need to be reserved for sex since the yoga helps you harness the same energy.

If you feel comfortable enough to try a 30 day masturbation challenge, only you will reap the benefits!