Never Have Sex With Someone Until This One Thing Happens First

"Let's wait to have sex." That is not a statement you hear too often nowadays. Yes, there are still those who choose to wait until marriage like, actress Meagan Good and her man. But, according to matchmaker Alessandra Conti, you don't have to save sex for marriage in order to have a longstanding and healthy relationship with someone—but you do have to wait for something very important to happen. 

Conti noted, to Elite Daily, that men basically have two mindsets when it comes to dating and women. There are women that guys just want to sleep with, and then there are women that guys actually want to be with. Hmmm. Interesting! Except for the fact that you knew this already, didn't you? Same!

Here's what you probably didn't know. You should wait to have sex until you're in an EXCLUSIVE relationship with a man. We're talking serious exclusivity! A relationship where he's not only stimulated by your physical appearance, but your personality as well.

Dating apps have really changed the way people date. Now, it's easy to date more than one person at a time—all you have to do is swipe right. If you're a woman, who's just interested in having a good time, go ahead and keep doing what you're doing. BUT, if you're someone who wants to land a man, who doesn't have any side chicks, take Conti's advice: "Don't sleep with him until you're in an exclusive relationship."  

Remember, this is only for those women looking to settle down in a committed relationship with Mr. Right. If you're not looking for something serious, keep doing you boo boo!