The Anal Orgasm: Everything You Need To Know

Some people claim their back door is for exit only. It seems like most women fall into one of two camps when it comes to anal sex. There's the group of ladies that hear, "Let's try anal," and go:

Then there's that gaggle of gals that goes:

But what you may not know about it a secret third group, a group of women who not only have tried anal, but have experienced the magical anal orgasm. When they're asked about anal, they'll usually say something along the lines of:

So are these anal die-hards onto something? Here's what you need to know about achieving the Big O in the backdoor.

Getting ready: A lot of hangup about anal activity stems from the fear of "being clean." Poop comes out of there! What happens if poop comes out with his dick? These are legitimate concerns, but there are ways you can avoid them by simply taking a few extra steps pre-sex. Some women try an enema bulb, to rid them of any pesky pieces of shit. Most people can get away with taking a shower and sticking a finger up their bums to check if anything's there. DO NOT use soap in your rectum. You'll be dried out and more susceptible to tearing. Also, use a condom. That way, in case an accident does happen, the only thing getting the brown stuff on it is the condom. 

Playing with yourself: Before you let a man stick a dick in, try some fingering on your own. It may sound taboo, but exploring your own anus will definitely help you get comfortable with the sensation of something entering you and may even help your appetite for anal activity increase. 

LUBE! LUBE! LUBE!: Your vagina, when stimulated, takes care of moisturizing the runway. The anus doesn't really help you out in that department. So invest in a high quality lubrication. Doing so will allow the dick to enter much more comfortably and will help you avoid any cuts or scrapes. KY and AstroGlide tend to be favorites, but if you're really serious, try pjur, a fantastic concoction developed specifically for anal intercourse. 

Foreplay: A common mistake is the guy just shoving his manhood in all at once. If he does that, slap him on the face. Well maybe not, but at least reprimand him. That's a stupid move and is guaranteed to cause you pain. The back oven needs even more preheating than the front. Have him gently finger you with lube, which will accomplish three things: 1) pleasure you 2) loosen your hole 3) lube up your anal canal.

Hitting the BIG O: So you're ready to have anal. In terms of achieving orgasm, your best bet is for him to find the perineal sponge, which lies about halfway between your vagina and rectum. You may have heard it referred to as your taint. Positions that maximize his chance of hitting it include missionary or woman-on-top. Of course, the anus has tons of nerve ends besides the PS-spot, so once you feel comfortable, try a variety of positions. You never know. After you get that anal orgasm, you may become a member of that secret third group who totally gets that anal is what all the cool girls are doing. 

Just don't forget: USE LUBE! USE SO MUCH LUBE. (Also have a hand towel nearby.) Now go and become anal pros!