There's nothing more unattractive than someone who can't be on time. The first date is all about first impressions and if you arrive late you're basically saying you don't care

if that person's first impression of you is negative. The only reason you should be late to a date is you die. 

Not only should you not text or talk on the phone during a first date (or really any date) but you shouldn't really look at your phone at all. If you

want to show your date something funny on Instagram than go for it, but other than that? Put your phone away.

I don't think anyone should be talking about their exes on a first date. I know you might want to know about his past, but chill the hell out! Neither of

you should be getting into the nitty gritty of your past girlfriends or boyfriends. It's just too soon.

You're going to sound so arrogant and annoying. Your date will probably want to kill you and I wouldn't blame them for doing so.

Don't fart. Don't burp. Don't do anything bodily fluids related. I hope you know this already, but just in case you don't, please take my advice. 

I don't recommend having a first date at a bar, or any place like a bar. It's way to easy to drink too much and make a fool out of

yourself. Maybe go to dinner or coffee. You want to make sure you're somewhere that won't force you to consume too much liquor because that won't end well. 

Sometimes, our nerves can get in the way during first dates and make us do things we'd never normally do like, speak WAY too loudly. Check yourself and your voice.

I can't tell you how many times I've gone on dates with guys who talk way too loudly because they're nervous. It's annoying as hell. 

There's no need to say this. It very well might be your first date in a long time, but your date doesn't need to know that. Save that comment for

your best friend or your mom. 

I already said you shouldn't be talking about your ex. But if you just really really want to, don't describe them as "crazy." That's disrespectful and it'll make you look

like an asshole to your date.

Anything sex-related is a huge no-no! Maybe you're just asking for the hell of it, but your date is going to assume you're a horn dog who's only interested in

hooking up. If that's true, go ahead and ask that question to make sure you're both on the same page.

I understand wanting to know what the person you're on a date with wants in the long run. But, maybe re-word this question a little. Maybe ask if they see themselves

in a relationship in the next couple of years so it doesn't feel like you're putting too much pressure on them. 

Unless you plan on finishing that sentence with, "your pictures don't do you justice, you're beautiful," don't say something like this. It's very rude!

This is an important question to ask someone... just not on the first date! 

RUDE! If you have plans after your date that you can't miss, then you shouldn't be going on that date. I know life can be busy, but you need to move

the date to another day where you're more free. No one wants to feel rushed!

If you say this to a guy (regardless of it's the first date or the hundredth date) he's most definitely going to take this as a sign you're not sexually attracted

to him. 

Where's the confidence?! Don't ask someone if they think you're pretty. As long as you think you're pretty, that's all that matters. Guys, and girls, want someone who's confidant in

their own skin. 

What is that to even say to someone? And honestly, how the hell can you be bored on a first date? All you're doing is sitting down for a couple

hours making conversation with another person. Just suck it up!

I know you might want to know the answer to this question, but it's so important you get to know someone for a little before you judge them based off their

political stance. What's important is the kind of person someone is. Remember that.

Once again, this is useful information for someone you're in a relationship with to know. But, they don't need to know your financial issues early on. In fact, they don't

need to know anything about your money situations (how much you make, how little you make, etc.). Keep it hushed.

If you're trying to friendzone your date, then maybe you should say this. But if you don't, you shouldn't mention being "friends" at all because that's going to cause a

lot of confusion. 

I hate cats. I hate people who own cats. I hate people who like cats. Cats are guardians of the underworld and that's all I really need to say about the matter.  

Trust me when I say, he doesn't need to know about your menstrual cycle. If you're over the age of 16, you should really know not to lead with period

talk on a first date. 

You can ask someone if they work out but just ask that... don't make a nudge to their physical appearance. It can come off as really creepy. 

If you're a guy and you say this to a girl she's going to think, "gay...." If you're a girl who says this to a guy, it's going to feel

a little too forced because his hair probably isn't all that.

I've been on a date with a guy who legit said this, and he actually did so. It was the ugliest thing I've ever experienced. He wasn't some well-known chef

or a blogger. Why did he think people needed to see the food he was eating at that exact moment? I don't know. 

I hate when people actually say, "LOL." This isn't a texting conversation, this is real life. Don't verbally say, "LOL" as if you don't know what your reality is. 

If you say this, your date is going to automatically think you're a bitch. Because you probably are. 

If this is true, then this person is an absolute freak. Something is mentally, physically, and possibly spiritually wrong with them if they don't have access to Netflix. 

This question is creepy AF and unnecessary because if you want to take a snapchat just do it on the low.

Let other people tell you you're unique, okay? 

Don't ask this question. Trust me, you don't want to know the answer. 

Okay... so, that's fine. There's nothing wrong with being into Jesus, but I'm not sure if you need to lead with that. Instead of coming in hot, maybe just tell

someone, casually, you go to church on Sundays or you attend bible study. 

Okay, so you want to sound different and not as obsessed with social media as all the other millennials. I get that, but that doesn't mean you have to be

insulting. Odds are, your date LOVES social media. Don't make him or her feel bad about what they like. 

There's a time and a place to discuss your fetish. That time and place is not on a first date. 

Then why the hell are you on this date?! I think a lot of people mean this as a compliment, but it doesn't sound like one. It sounds like someone

who knows full well this "relationship" isn't going to go anywhere.

Whatever is going on in your life, leave it at the front door. Or better yet, cancel the date. If you're emotional for whatever reason there's no need to go

on a first date. Face it, if you cry on your first date your date is going to tell people. 

Why are you on this date if you're moving soon? I'm serious. You're wasting your time and your wasting your date's time. If you're looking for a hook up then

just go on Tinder. 

Unless you have over 10K followers, you're not an Instagram model so you can't back this statement up. Which makes you a liar. Don't be a liar on the first date. 

SHUT YOUR FACE. Please don't tell someone you don't eat carbs. You're going to sound obnoxious and it's going to make your date want to punch you in the face. 

Chill. You don't have to ask how the date went, trust your gut. If it feels like the date was horrible, then it probably was. If it feels like the

date was good, then it probably was. Don't come at your date with a hundred and one questions about the date. That's weird.