The best blowjobs - like the best stories - have a beginning, a middle, and an end. Did your story start slow and romantic or was it a impassioned sparks-flying run in. Did

the narrative build, the different characters of tickles and kisses to hands and tongue and mouth? How did it build to the conclusion? When did the pace increase and the

crescendo reach it's inevitable and obvious climax. If you control the story you will have your reader's full attention, and a good story teller likes telling the story. Which leads

us to our next tip...

It's important that you be excited while giving oral sex. Nobody wants to receive pleasure from a person who just is doing it under obligation. It's probably happened to all

of us so we know from experience that it's not a good experience. Sure it seems like a no-brainer but it's vital that you actually like giving blowjobs. 

Often someone doesn't

like giving blowjobs because they don't quite have a grasp on what they should do. In this article we could tell you about possibly gripping him harder around the shaft, or

maybe using you tongue more. We could say that you should fondle his balls, or that you should use your finger and play with his ass. But when it comes

down to it all those techniques are personal preference of the recipient, so what you really need is...

Look each and every partner is different, and likes things different ways. Some guys like having their shaft squeezed, other guys want a light quick touch. Some guys would love

you to play with their ass while others would jump half way across the room if you tried anything near the back door.

The only way to find out if

you're doing a good 'job' is to talk about it. You can also do it in a sexy way that doesn't come off as investigative reporting. maybe when you're on your

knees, ask him if he likes what you're doing. Ask him if he likes it the way you're stroking, look him in the eyes and ask if you should use

your tongue. He might say 'yes ma'am'.

Getting him wet and slick with your saliva is a great way to create friction in places you didn't know you could. You can then use your hand to stroke him

down and up as you use your tongue, lips or mouth to provide extra pleasure. If saliva is proving to be a problem, there are some great tasting lubes out

there that you can integrate into this equation. Or just grab some coconut oil! Coconut oil in the bedroom is your friend. Having lube for a blowjob handy also shows commitment of

forethought and will get huge points from your boo.

Mix it up! If something works then that's great, if you've talked about stuff and you know your man goes wild for a deep throat then by all means continue! But

also you can switch it up. Under that same example, maybe play with him, asking how bad he wants the deep throat, what he's willing to do to get it. Maybe try

licking and kissing him in ways you haven't before, or blowing him on your knees with him sitting versus laying on the bed. Maybe it's a 69. Who knows! Try

new stuff while remembering to keep it wet, enthusiastic, and with a story to talk about later!