Take some initiative. Put away the to-do lists and clear the schedule.Talk to each other, flirt, and share your secrets and insights. No phones, no emails, and no work talk allowed.

It will be a good break for the both of you!

Because men are strong physically and mentally, we often forget that they have feelings, fears, and desires. They need our support and they need to feel safe expressing themselves. It

is important that we stop, look them in the eye, and let them know how much we appreciate all they do. 

If you make the decision to be present in every moment, the people that you love will know it. Let's face it. Women have the same complaint about men who

are workaholics. They never have time for the family. You probably know how that feels. Every so often, you have to remember why you are doing what you are doing. When

you are working, focus on work. But when you are at home, focus on home. 

Men are not mind readers. Let's face it, they just aren't wired that way. When something is on your mind, let him know what is going on. They are problem-solvers and

if they know that there is an issue, they will work toward solving it. Just be open and honest and choose your spots. Timing is just as important as truth.

Funny thing about work is that there is always more work to do. So much of our lives together are dictated by schedules making it easy to forget what a good

time looks like. Be spontaneous and playful. Get out of the house and try something new. Meet up with old friends or go out dancing. The possibilities are endless. Just

do what feels good to you and reconnect!