A majority of the people he follows on Instagram are women. He follows models, socialites, random baristas he meets (I mean, flirts with) at coffee shops — if she's attractive, he follows her.

And you better believe he double tabs every bikini pic they post. 

You two are constantly flirting! Your text message threads are filled with smiley faces and sexy emojis. But, you guys never talk about anything important. All your conversations are superficial, he doesn't

know anything real about you. And you don't know anything real about him.  

Every time you guys hang out (and I do mean, EVERY TIME) you end up in between the sheets having sex. Now, this might not sound like a bad thing. But if your relationship

primarily exists in the bedroom, it's probably because you only have a bedroom connection.

He doesn't post pictures of girls on his Instagram, but he's tagged in plenty. If you guys hang out Friday night, he'll be tagged in three different girls Insta pics before the

weekend ends. Needless to say, he's not living a "guy in a committed relationship" lifestyle. 

No one would think you were a couple. Why? Because there's zero P.D.A. He doesn't hold your hand when you guys are out shopping or kiss you in front of his

friends. Sure, you could try to give him a peck but he'd deny it. He doesn't want people to think you guys are in a committed relationship...which means, you're not!

The first time you guys hung out he told you he wasn't looking for a serious relationship. He might've said something about his past relationship and not wanting to rush

into anything. It doesn't matter what his reason was, he said it and he meant it — he doesn't want something serious. Now, all you have to do is believe him.