When you’re single and having sex, no matter how much someone professes their undying love and affection, the reality is you could roll over the next morning and they’ll be

gone. You might not ever see them again. 

Could that happen in a marriage? Yeah…but not quite so easily. Marriage comes with paperwork and obligations. It also comes with vows

and if people take those seriously, they are full-on, all-in committed to their partner. Getting out of that could take some real undoing, and happily married people? They don’t want

to. 

There’s something really assuring about being intimate with someone knowing that they stood before your family members and friends and said they’d be with you, come what may.

Since you’re sharing a bed every night, you can take advantage of morning sex on a regular basis which can put you in a great mood and make you more

productive throughout the day. Not to mention, your partner has seen you at your best and worst, so you don’t have to worry about always looking like a supermodel. 

You know what

turns each other on, so you can “get there” quicker and more often. Which means, you can engage in foreplay and quickies all day...any time of the day. The more sex

you have, the more calories you burn, and the better you’ll feel.

If you don’t want any (more) kids, yeah, birth control is on the table. We don’t mean that kind of protection, though. We’re saying that being married means you don’t

have to worry about your partner sleeping around (or at least you shouldn’t). Who wants to always have sex with a condom on? When you’re in a monogamous relationship, you can

enjoy pleasure without prophylactics. On so many levels and for so many reasons, that’s awesome!

Single sex usually involves some sort of planning. Where are you going to do it? When? Married sex? Again, you share a house! This means that if the mood hits you in

the kitchen while you’re making spaghetti, in the bathroom while you’re brushing your teeth or in the middle of the night while you’re rolling over, you can go for it.

Tonight. Tomorrow. Every single day this week (and next) if you wanna.

Some single people have a great sexual connection on a physical level. But at the end of the day, that’s basically all it is — physical. Married people have signed on to

share every part of their lives, through sickness and in health. That alone takes the sexual experience to greater heights. 

When two people have really been through some things and have

stuck by each other’s side, that creates a oneness that surpasses the best one night stand or even one-year relationship. This is why a lot of couples who’ve been married

for a few decades say that their sex life is better now than it’s ever been. Makes perfect sense.

One reason why some women have a hard time climaxing is due to trust issues. Someone broke their heart. They don’t feel comfortable with their body. They are terrified to totally

give themselves over to someone else. This is far more of an issue for single ladies than married ones. 

When you know that someone unconditionally loves you, there’s a sense of

security and stability that you can rest and relax is. And when you’re having sex in that kind of heart space, it’s like your wedding night all over again! It

can make the most cynical of single women jealous.