We all have insecurities. It's important to know that you don't have to hide them when you're having sex (or ever). The guy you're sleeping with doesn't care about the mole on your back

or that you're 10lbs heavier than you'd like to be. In bed, he's only thinking about one thing...and I'm sure you know what that is.  

You want to please your guy. That makes sense. However, he shouldn't be the only one having fun. You're constantly going down on him and he never returns the favor. Sound familiar? Yeah, that

needs to change!

Your friends don't need to know every single detail of your sex life. Why? Because what they say can influence you. Your sex life is your sex life! You don't need

any unnecessary commentary from your squad. 

If you want to have sex - make the first move! Don't wait for the guy. Take control of your sex life, instead of relying on him to do everything. You're both

equal in this relationship. If you want the power, take it.

You want to be the best sex he's ever had. So you're constantly thinking about fun little things you guys can try in bed. The only problem is, the more you

think, the more you stress yourself out. Sex should be fun, it shouldn't feel like work!

You don't need to have sex immediately. In my opinion, it's better to wait. And not just to make sure the guy isn't an asshole. Kissing, touching, and making out are

incredibly satisfying and make the sex (when it does happen) way hotter!