Does it feel like he thinks about himself more than he thinks about you? Yeah? It's because he's self-centered. He's selfish and he only cares about making himself happy. 

He doesn't want other guys to talk to you. In fact, he get's pissed off when they do - and not in a cute, caring sort of way. He gets loud and aggressive.  

Sometimes, he says some pretty disrespectful stuff. Not about you, but he's definitely said some hateful things about his friends and family. The kid even talks shit about strangers walking across the

street. Wtf?

You're ALWAYS the one texting him first. If you didn't text him, would you guys even talk? Honestly, probably not.   

You've already vented about his behavior to your friends and you guys haven't been together that long. You know there's something not right about your relationship!

He's still talking about how horrible his ex was. Huge red flag! He probably still has feelings for her. Or, maybe he just wants to call her names. Either way, it's not

a good sign.

There's a reason the people closest to you don't like him. And no, it's not because they need to get to know him more. 

You feel like you're putting in all the effort. It doesn't seem like he cares! You're the one making the plans, driving to see him, and doing everything in your power to

move the relationship forward. But, you can't be the only one doing the work. It takes two to tango!