Sometimes sex is great, amazing in fact. You're connected to your partner and your mind shuts off to everything around you. But then there are times when it's just, dull. Uneventful. Boring. You know you should be focused on that FINE man on top of you, but you just can’t. Happens to the best of us. Although we’d never tell our partners, there are some secret things we all do and think while having sex.