When NeNe wanted to plan a fun event for the couples of RHOA, she wasn't prepared for the drama that would ensue. During the night of the event, Kenya's friend

Brandon and Apollo got into a heated physical fight, causing all of the cast members to wonder how it even started. 

It's pretty much impossible to be an RHOA fan without knowing Sheree's famous line "Who gone check me boo?"

The shade came after Sheree's party planner, Anthony, couldn't get on the

same page with her about the different events of the party. After an exchange of words, Anthony said, "You need to watch yourself before you get checked."

And, well, you know

the rest.

NeNe and Sheree have been the queens of shade since the show began, and this season 4 "lunch" proved this and more. Sheree noted that NeNe changed after having money

and confronted her about a rumor she heard that challenged Sheree's income. The read between the two that followed was def one for the RHOA books.

The Phaedra Vs. Kenya feud was one that began quickly after Kenya joined the cast. Apollo, Phaedra's husband, and Kenya often flirted during the group's vacation trips, and Apollo's lies on

Kenya's intentions only distanced the women further. Everything came to a head on RHOA's season 6 reunion, when Phaedra offered Kenya a read on her struggles to find a sperm

donor. For once, Kenya was left speechless.

Cynthia has mainly been the peacemaker/bystander of the show, but all of that went out of the window during season 8 when she and Porsha got into a fight on

a boat trip. Words quickly escalated, and after Porsha wagged her finger to close to Cynthia's face, Cynthia unexpectedly gave her a kick in her stomach.

One of the most infamous physical altercations from the show, this moment during season 6's reunion left everyone shocked. Kenya brought a couple of props to the reunion, including a

megaphone, and used them to taunt Porsha. But when Porsha had enough and stood up, Kenya was not ready for the literal dragging that took place.

During the latest season of RHOA, Sheree was considering giving her ex, Bob, another chance to be in her life. But his immaturity and overall lack of empathy and care

pushed Sheree to the brink. 

During a car ride with Phaedra and Kenya, Bob brought up the topic of domestic abuse and outright asked Sheree if he ever hit or

choked her. After Sheree shot him a knowing glance and admitted that he had in the past, Bob made a horrible attempt at a joke by saying, "Maybe I didn't

choke you hard enough."

Distasteful. 

Fans of the show were anticipating the season 9 reunion, which was uncharacteristically 4 parts long. But the last part proved to be the juiciest one yet, as Phaedra was

exposed as the one who started the rumor about Kandi wanting to drug and rape Porsha. Kandi not surprisingly lost her cool, and Porsha had questions for Phaedra that she

just wasn't prepared to answer.