First things first, make sure he knows you're interested. Stroke his ego, bat your eyelashes, and flash him that award winning smile of yours. But then, RETREAT! Give him attention, but not too

much attention. 

Don't make it seem like you're obsessed with him (even if you are). Ask questions, make him sweat. He should feel like you're on the fence about whether or not you

like him - it's his job to convince you, remember that!

Guys love a girl with some mystery. They want to solve you like a cryptic crossword. So, be a little mysterious! When he asks you a question, keep your answer short and sweet.

This doesn't mean you should decline his offer to take you out. However, you shouldn't be the one adjusting your schedule to fit into his free time. He should be the one

changing around his calendar to see you.   

He's got to work for you! But, you've also got to put in some effort. If he texts you, respond. Don't always wait 17 minutes, in order to look "busy." Also,

don't feel like you can't text him first. You can! 

I'm not saying you should wait to have sex (but it's always a good idea). Just make sure you have a clear timeline! If you don't want to sleep with him

on the first (or fifth) date, don't. Wear your ugliest panties and your most unflattering bra and stand by your timeline. The longer you wait, the more he'll want you.  

Make sure you're not putting his needs before yours, especially in the beginning of the relationship. If you have plans to meet a friend for dinner, don't cancel them just because

he wants to hang out. Your needs and wants should always come first. 

You need to know this before you start playing hard to get: You don't need him! Your life is already meaningful. If this guy doesn't respect you, work for you, or

treat you like the Queen you are - he's not for you. Go find yourself a real one.