Double texting is a bad idea. If he didn’t reply to your first message, please don’t send another. Oh, and pretty please don’t text him asking if his phone works. It’s 2016,

of course his phone works - he just isn't responding!

Your relationship just started and you’re already making plans for next year. No no no. I get it, you both love the beach. But that doesn’t mean you need to be

booking a romantic trip for two to Hawaii next June.

If you’re showing up unannounced at his job, house, or favorite bar - you’re coming off as very desperate! Plain and simple. Showing up, without an invite, isn't okay. It's also slightly stalkerish. 

Will you do anything he asks? Yup! Cancel your plans to hang out with him? Definitely! Head out the door to a late night booty call when you got work early? Of, course! 'Nuff said.

Breaking into his phone and reading his texts isn’t cool. In fact, I’m pretty sure it’s illegal. You want to know whether or not your relationship is exclusive. That's understandable. But sneaking

into his phone isn't the way to do that. It screams desperate (and slightly crazy).

Spending too much money on him is a huge sign that you’re desperately trying to make the relationship work. There’s nothing wrong with showering him with affection, but expensive swag...? C’mon now. 

Have you brought up the idea of marriage to him...more than once? You’ve been together for what, a month? Pump the brakes before he slams on them! There’s no need to be

discussing marriage right now. You two barely know each other.

He hasn't introduced you to his parents because he isn’t ready yet. Keyword: Yet. He might get there eventually. But if you’re constantly bugging him about it or rocking his old family

reunion t-shirt - you’re doing too much. (Besides that shirt is ugly.)