What might surprise you is the fact that ejaculation and orgasms don’t always happen simultaneously. It’s not uncommon for men to ejaculate and then have an orgasmic reaction. Sometimes men

ejaculate without an orgasm (it’s not super common but it does happen), and (wow) some men are able to have an orgasm without ejaculating at all. Who knew?

How long does a male orgasm last anyway? Reportedly somewhere between five and 22 seconds and they burn around three calories every time they do it. A woman’s orgasm lasts,

on average, somewhere around half a minute (click here if you wanna learn how to have a 15-minute orgasm. Whew! Good luck!). That’s why trying to have an

orgasm at the same time can seem a little tricky. Click here if you want to try and pull it off.

Did you know that 15-20 percent of men can pull off the ever-so-coveted multiple orgasm? It takes a bit more effort, but the starting points are more foreplay and learning

about his G-spot. Yep, your man has one too. Where is it? About two inches inside of his anus. If you touch it, the right spot feels like of like a

small chestnut. Depending on how “free” your man is in the bedroom, getting to it might take some doing. Get creative. Word on the street is once a man has

found his spot, he’s all for it being discovered over and over again. 

Another interesting tidbit is the fact that a half of a man’s penis is actually located inside of his body. How do we know that? Because it starts at his

pelvic bone. That’s why anything that stimulates his prostrate can arouse him. But a man’s penis is not his only erogenous zone. A lot of men are sensitive around their

ear lobes, their nipples (there are lots of nerve endings around there), their neck, their lips (yes, there are lots of men who love to kiss throughout sex because it

heightens their oxytocin levels) and---drum roll, please---their thumbs. Sound weird? Well, the thumb does kind of represent what’s going on down below and apparently if you suck on their thumb,

that is exactly where their mind goes.

If you think your man is selfish for rolling over and going to sleep after sex, cut him a little slack. Doctors will vouch for the fact that it can

take men anywhere from one minute to an hour before they are ready to give it a second go around. Different factors come into play including age, lifestyle and how

much exercise they get. So if you don’t want to take a nap with him, make sure he eats right and works out. Then you can resume your orgasms closer

to your own schedule instead of his. (Good luck, girl!)