Presentation is everything, so let’s start with how your lips feel. To get them super soft to the touch, use a dry brush or (even better) some brown sugar to

exfoliate them. That will remove any dead skin or “feathering” that might be on the surface layers. Don’t forget to apply a flavored lip gloss or lip balm too. Just

make sure that the texture isn’t too “tacky” to the feel. It might look good, but no man wants that feeling all over his mouth---during and especially after (if you

want to make your own flavored lip gloss, click here). Oh, and don’t forget about having fresh breath! If you’re more concerned about his than yours, click

target="_blank">here for some foods that will keep to keep things smelling good.

The guy who can’t seem to get his aim right? He’s annoying, no matter how much you love him. You know who we’re talking about too. His top lip seems

to end up on your nose or down by your chin. No matter what, he can’t seem to get---or keep---his lips on top of yours. If your man “shoots and

misses”, something you can do is hold his face. Take it into your hands and then gently kiss him. If he starts going wild on you, your hand placement can

get him back into position without making him feel emasculated in the process. Just remember that being gentle (and patient) is key.

Something else that you can try is “dirty talking” him through the kiss. Tell him what you like about being kissed. What your favorite part about kissing is and what excites

you. It’s a slick way of instructing him without him really noticing that’s what you’re doing. And please remember with this that tone is everything. The sexier the voice, the

better the results.

Is that tongue of his uncontrollable? SLOW. DOWN. Either he’s going to pick up on the hint that he’s kind of in the kiss by himself or he’s going to ask

you what the problem is. If it’s the latter, there’s nothing wrong with saying “There’s no rush. Let’s just chill out and enjoy the moment.”

Never forget this one. It’s going to be a process, but when he does do what you like, let him know. Moan. Move your hands to a spot that he likes.

Slightly intensify the kiss. Send signals that he’s onto something good. Before you know it, your good lover will become a really great kisser. Good things come to those who

wait, right? We’re optimistic that, in time, this all will pay off. Practice makes perfect, after all.