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How do you feel when you're told you are beautiful? Pretty damn good, I imagine. Your daughter is no different. If she has a hard time seeing her own beauty,
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be the woman in her life who makes it clear that she is more than just a pretty face (but her face is pretty nonetheless)- she's beautiful in every way!
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Our daughters are saturated with magazines and media that portray "beautiful" women as fitting a certain mold. But if your daughter doesn't fit this mold, or even if she does,
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make sure she knows that beauty comes in many different shapes and sizes. Talk with her about what makes certain women beautiful, and point out how being "different" is often
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One of the struggles our daughters face when it comes to fitting in is dressing in a way that keeps up with the latest trends. No matter what your daughter's
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style is, let her know how much you love the way she dresses (unless it's inappropriate, of course). Her peers might put her into a category like "tomboy," "preppy" or
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"hippie," but all she needs to know is that she can write her own rules and that she looks "fabulous!"
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Not only is working out with your daughter a great way to bond, it's also an opportunity to encourage her to stay active. If she has someone pushing her and
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motivating her, she's more likely to work hard at staying healthy. When she looks healthy, she'll feel healthy, and both of those things are important.
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A positive body image isn't always directly related to issues about your body. Sometimes, other parts of you influence how you feel about the rest of yourself. If your daughter
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is quirky, let her know that's awesome! If she's more reserved, approach her in a gentle way. Don't make your daughter apologize for who she is, and she'll have an
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easier time accepting who she is- physically and otherwise.
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What we put into our bodies is just as important as how we treat them on the outside. If your daughter is educated about food and nutrition, she's more likely
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to develop healthy eating habits, which will make her feel good about her body.
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If you want your daughter to feel good about her body, emphasize that she is also good at other things. Attend her school performances, sporting events and other activities so
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she feels supported. Let her know how proud of her you are, and that positivity is likely to transfer to her confidence about her body.
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The most important thing you can do to help your daughter develop a positive body image is to be confident yourself! If your daughter sees that you love the skin
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you're in, she'll probably model that confidence. A strong, confident woman will bring up a strong, confident daughter.
Raising a daughter today is hard. Raising a confident daughter today is really hard. With all of the pressures from society to act, look and feel certain ways, our young women are finding it challenging to be authentic.
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