Everyone likes surprises. Especially, when those surprises deal with sex. Greet your partner at the front door with nothing but your birthday suit. Or, surprise him with sex toys and fun lingerie. Moral

of the story: If there's an opportunity to surprise your partner, you should take it! 

You may be thinking, "I'm too old to sext." Wrong! You're never too old to give sexting a go. It's perfect for couples who spend a majority of the day

apart because of conflicting work schedules. Send a sexy pic his way around lunch time! It'll make his day and he'll most likely return the favor later that night ;). 

Try a new sex position every week. Maybe that's too often! What about once a month? Yeah, that sounds more realistic. It's not about finding a new position that you'll both love (that

could happen, though). It's about experimenting in your relationship to keep things new and fresh. 

There's no need to rush through the bases. They are very important, especially kissing! Making out should be appreciated, just as much as sex. I know you're not teenagers anymore. But, act like you are!

Spend some time (more than a minute) kissing and groping your partner. 

Couples who watch porn together, stay together! You and your partner should be able to find something that'll make you both hot. Trust me, a good porn flick won't just turn you on, it'll

give you inspiration and an eagerness to perform. 

Have sex with your partner somewhere you've never done it before. And no, I don't just mean your car, kitchen table, or outside patio. F*ck on an elevator, in your

office, maybe a public restroom. Doesn't matter where. Just make sure it's somewhere new and incredibly risky (makes the sex hotter). 

Make sure you're both aware of what you like, and what you LOVE in bed. Discuss your sexual desires and your ultimate fantasies. Tell your man if you want more "Fifty

Shades of Grey" shit! He probably does, too.