What’s your man’s favorite dessert? Is it a flourless chocolate cake that you make or is it some chocolate chip cookies that are sold at a local bakery?

Whatever it is, imagine the shock on his face---and the envy of his co-workers---if you have it delivered directly to his job with a special note about how sweet he

is and how you can’t wait to get home to show him just how loved he is. Talk about a sugar---and adrenaline--- rush!

It’s kind of sad how many of us don’t write love letters anymore. At the very most, we text or shoot an email---and even that’s pushing it most of the

time. There’s not a human alive who doesn’t like to be encouraged and affirmed. 

Take a half hour to personally write a letter to your husband about all of the

things you love about him, why you choose him and what makes your relationship special. Sprinkle some of your favorite perfume on it and place it in his car or

briefcase. Then wait for the kind of thank you call you receive…later.

It’s pretty common for a husband to buy his wife lingerie for Valentine’s Day. And we all know that it’s just as---if not more---for the man than it is for

his lady! This year, be a step ahead by purchasing some lingerie so that you can give it to him as a gift. Choose his favorite color and style and

pick up some matching silk boxers. He’ll consider it to be one of the best gifts he’s received in quite a while.

What’s a nostalgic meal? It’s simply one that will take you back in time to a favorite experience together. Maybe it was what you ate on your first date, the

best meal you had on your honeymoon or what you decided to eat on your first anniversary. Only, don’t order it from a restaurant. Stay at home, light some candles

and make it together instead. It’s a great way to get in some much-needed quality time.

A massage is one of the best things you can do for your health and well-being. It relieves stress and body aches. It can help to treat anxiety and insomnia.

It can also help to heal soft tissue strains and headaches. 

Help your husband to relax by either hiring a licensed massage therapist to come to the house and give

you a couples’ massage or by doing it yourself. Something tell us that if you mix some sweet almond oil and lavender, sandalwood or cedarwood, he’ll prefer Option B.

Another great idea? Get him something that has absolutely nothing to do with Valentine’s Day! Maybe tickets to his favorite sporting event, a pair of new sneakers, or dinner on

you for him and some of his pals. Giving him a gift that is customized to his taste and personality sends the message that you really understand him. And that

can make him feel all sorts of warm fuzzies on this coming Valentine’s Day!