Energy is contagious and people want to be around those who make them feel good. No, we aren't saying be happy 24/7, but there's something to be said about someone

who is self-aware enough to realize that their lack of joy affects others. By working on what makes you happy, you ultimately get closer to it and further away from

a miserable life. Don't believe the hype...misery doesn't love company. It's a loner.

It takes energy to be miserable. Usually we are unhappy when we feel like things aren't going our way, and instead of realizing our power to change things, we give

in to negative feelings. But feelings have a way of multiplying and if you entertain negativity enough, it will consume you and your health. While sex is a great stress

reliever, you won't quite be able to perform to your maximum capability thanks to stress and negativity. 

Any self-respecting woman will not allow you to use her as a verbal punching bag, and there's absolutely nothing sexy about not taking accountability for your own life. If she

makes you unhappy, leave. If you're unhappy at work, put a plan of finding another job into action. Stop blaming everyone else for your miserable existence. As cliche as it

sounds, you can change your life at any moment. No wonder you're not getting any. 

Because you feel hopeless in life, you feel hopeless in everything. You start questioning your existence and particularly what your woman (or man) is doing with you. By infusing such

doubt and negativity, you become less desirable to your mate. Hell, sex is the last thing on either or your minds.

Some of us are blessed to have positive, loving, affectionate, optimistic partners. But when we are unhappy, their "glass half full" philosophy can be downright annoying. As a result, we

are saying, "I don't want to hear that s***" and pushing them away. Damn. Just damn.