Before you start going off over what someone said about you, consider if there’s any truth to it. If there is, listen to what they're saying. Don't get mad that your flaws are

being discussed, deal with the root of the issue. You'll see things much differently if you do.

It’s one thing to have your best friend talk about you behind your back. But some random person on Twitter? A negative perception is ugly and uncomfortable, no matter who

has it. But if it’s someone who only thinks they know you, keep this quote close to home: "Only take personal the things that people who know you personally say."

And even then, weigh out if it’s really worth stressing over.

You are never going to get anything accomplished if you’re constantly chasing rumors down. Why? Because there are always going to be rumors! 

It’s an unfortunate reality that everyone on

this planet, at one time or another, gets talked about…but it’s the truth. Don’t spend a lot of time---precious time that you’ll never get back---trying to figure out who said

what. 

Think about this instead: Not all rumors are lies, so if something is true but you simply wanted to keep it private, who did you tell? If you weren’t talking

a lot yourself (cough, cough), you should be able to narrow the "talker" down pretty quickly. If it’s not true, why spend your time and energy running after a lie? 

Lies lose their power overtime. Be patient. One way or another, the truth will be revealed---and will prevail.

Why do people feel the need to TALK SO MUCH on social media about their private lives? It’s usually not the best way to defuse anything (unless you’re apologizing to someone). Most

of the time, you’re only inviting more people into your mess. Plus, it usually comes off as childish. 

Everyone has a comment, but not everyone has a solution. If someone

showed you in a negative light on social media, counterattack by showing how mature you are in the real world. Stay quiet and/or contact them offline. Restraining yourself is a sign

of maturity.

All you can do is control who you are and what you know about yourself. Presenting your best self still doesn’t mean everyone will like you, or that they even should.

I'm sure you've heard the saying, “If everyone likes you, you’re hiding something.” There’s a lot of truth to that. The key isn't trying to get everyone to like you, it's making sure you

like you! 

Negativity is everywhere. Stay on top of it by surrounding yourself with positivity. Stay off of the gossip blogs. Don’t constantly talk about who’s doing what at work. Put up

positive quotes. Invest in a gratitude journal. Listen to music that makes you happy. Spend quality time with people who love and appreciate you. Having a positive attitude can help

you rise above all the drama, including people’s untrue perceptions of you.