Some folks you rock with heavier than others, so your brotha from another motha putting his arm around your neck means something different than that annoying a** co-worker who always

forgets to shower. Knowing who you will allow to do what, will assist you in setting clear boundaries with those who always seem like they’re ready to cross them.

If Bob from the 13th floor all of a sudden starts calling you by a pet name, say something! Nip that s*** in the bud right away. If you’re a

woman and you smile, he’ll think you’re flirting. Some folks are just stupid like that. If you’re a man and say nothing, then he'll think you're cool with it. And

we both know you're not, man. 

Let Bob know upfront that you prefer to be called by your name and he will respect it. Just passively expecting someone to pick

up on context clues never works. Be direct or be prepared to be called, “Pinky” or "Bro Man.”

There’s nothing like an invasive friend who tells you what to do (or at least attempts to) all of the time. They claim to be looking out for you, keeping

it real, but they’re annoying as hell. Once you’ve corrected the “space invader’s” attention (pun intended), give them time to correct their behavior. Old habits are hard to break, but

while you’re being patient with them, pay attention to see if they’re actually making an effort to respect your space.