If she is already pissed off and yelling this statement will only make it worse. In her mind, you are down playing a topic or situation that is important to

her. Not only are you being inconsiderate, but she doesn’t feel like you two are equal when you blatantly say her concerns aren’t that serious. #DontDoIt #TrustUsOnThis

This statement, if used correctly, will not only put you in the dog house, but might be grounds for a breakup. After she screenshots your message to her best friend

and they both agree that you used this dismissive statement because you couldn’t come up with any other excuse, she’ll be over it. #CheckYourself

“What are you trying to say?” will be her immediate pre-pissed off response. You’ll fumble your words trying to think of a reply that will undo the damage, but before

you can open your mouth she’ll answer for you. “Are you trying to say I’m ugly when I wear my bonnet?” The conversation gets much worse and it’s all downhill

from there. #GrinAndBearIt #ShutYoMouth

Even if she knows she’s being ratchet she will not like you verbalizing it. It will piss her off because she expects you, her man, to understand that fundamentally, she

is classy and elegant, no matter how ratchet she is being in the moment. #WhatDidYouJustSay!!!!

It’s the 21st century and black women are not only independent, but in many facets they are leaders and pioneers. Cooking isn’t on her top things to do list and

you asking her will definitely stir up an attitude. #IAintYourMama

Most likely your girlfriend despises at least one of your homeboys. She doesn’t understand why you hang around him and worries he is a bad influence on you. Chances are

she’s absolutely right and your homeboy has major issues. You’ve had many conversations that turned into arguments over Tyrone. So, when you ask if he can come over to watch

the game, it sends your girl through the roof. She might give you a hard no! Or worse, she might give you the silent treatment for the next week. #NoThanks

This is for the natural sistas who spend hours watching Youtube tutorials on twist outs and protective styles. She’s natural for a reason and she would appreciate it if you

respected her choice of hairstyle. Asking her to alter her hair will piss her off and ultimately hurt her feelings. #JustDealWithIt

Going back to point 5, Black women have always been strong enough to handle anything so, you asserting your male dominance, in a demeaning way, might not go over too

well. Don’t get us wrong, we believe Black women love the masculinity of Black men, however she knows she has too much to offer to not be considered your partner

in “handling things.” #DoesntApplyToTheCheck #LOL

When these words escape your mouth, stand back. Lightening might be about to strike...you! C'mon son! Instantly, both you and your girlfriend know it’s a non truth...Ok a lie. A

bold, faced lie. She will take her anger to the next level and make your relationship a living hell before breaking it off completely on the outside chance you could

be telling the truth. Nahhh. You're definitely lying. #BoyBye

This will undoubtedly make her listen to her friends even more. Your best bet is to be friends with her friends because they ain’t going nowhere.