You can’t just expect some pecks on the cheeks to get you going. You want that wild, toss you against the wall like in The Notebook type of kissing. The

more tongue, the better. Really get into it and show them you mean business.

Your partner can either use their own hands, or use a plethora of toys to get that job done. We personally recommend something grand like the Pure Wand.

It’s mission is life is to always find that g-spot.

This is one of the most intimate things two people can experience with one another. So it’s not surprising that it’s on this list. So if your partner doesn’t like

going down on you, then it may be time to trade them in because you’re never going to have an orgasm. It’s part of the damn trifecta here!