Believe it or not, quickies have health benefits. But if you want to master a simultaneous orgasm, don’t do it while you’re trying to squeeze some sex in

before heading off to work. According to sex experts, this happens best when you’re calm, emotionally connected and willing to take your time to enjoy foreplay. Foreplay is what helps

to build up anticipation. It also helps you to learn how to better “time” each other’s arousal. When you’re willing to slow things down in order to “catch up” to

one another, that does wonders in the mutual climax department.

Ask a guy what position he prefers to have an orgasm in and he’s probably going to say “pick one!” Women are a bit different, though. You need to get

into positions that will make “hitting that spot” more probable. Being on top is one. Straddling one another sideways is another. You can read about a few more (and why

they work so well for you) here.

We actually could’ve thrown this into the foreplay section, but sometimes oral sex needs to be emphasized! One of the best ways to stimulate one another is this way. The

more you do it, the better you’ll get at knowing when each other is at the peak of release. That comes in handy when you’re trying to learn how to

climax at the same time.

There’s been a lot of scientific time and energy put into understanding the purpose of the clitoris. So far, guess what? All they can link it back to is sexual

stimulation. There is a part of your body that is ONLY there to make you a very happy girl in the sexual fulfillment department. Give her the attention she deserves.

We’ll leave it up to the two of you to decide just what that means---and requires.

Have you ever heard of “edging” before? Basically, you take sex to the point of orgasm and then you back off. You do this a couple of times, it will

DRASTICALLY increase your chance of having simultaneous orgasm! The logic behind it is a guy can orgasm in less than five minutes (no shocker there). A woman? It takes more

like 12-14 minutes. Edging will help to keep him from peaking while you’re trying to get where he already is. It might seem like teasing, but the orgasms from edging are

intense enough to make it well worth your while! (His too.)

We can almost guarantee that if all you’re thinking about is climaxing, it’s probably not going to happen. Simultaneous orgasms are like the ninth wonder of the world, but don’t

stress yourself out about trying to have one. Incorporate these tips, but focus on the journey, not the goal. Let it surprise you. It will be like the sweetest icing

on the best slice of cake ever! Shoot…better than that!