Gallery: How To Be Your Husband's Best GIRLFRIEND Ever!

Maybe you’ve heard someone say “When we were just dating, everything about our relationship was great. Then we got married and things changed.” Not necessarily for the better either.

Ever wonder how that happens? It’s unreasonable (very!) to expect to go from boyfriend and girlfriend to husband and wife and there not be some transitions. But ask any reputable marriage counselor and they’re probably going to say that one reason why married couples experience a disconnect from time to time is because they have high expectations (sometimes unrealistic ones). That leads to pressure, which leads to stress, which leads to marital issues.

It would take writing a book’s worth of information to share with you all of the things that can be done to avoid marriage problems. For now, we do have a solution that is oftentimes overlooked. Just because you are now your husband’s wife, who said that means you should stop being his girlfriend?

What do we mean by that? The fun woman that he fell in love with, where is she? If deep down, you know that part of you is a little MIA in the “let’s not forget to keep the joy and spice in our relationship” department, here are some tips to get you back on track.