It’s not just about tapping that ass, it’s about location! Make sure your partner aims towards the bottom of your booty so that when his hand comes down, it creates

a vibration down south and gets your clitoris in on the party. Also, you can’t argue with ancient Tantric tomes that say some sexy spanking never hurt anyone... it actually wakes your

sexual chi right up!

Being a girl with a particular set of curls - I am not about this, but if you want to get the endorphins flowing, have your man take a lot

of your hair in his hands, usually closer to the scalp or at the back of the neck. Generally you just want to make sure he doesn't pull like a baby going for a

few stray hairs or it’ll just hurt and be annoying. If necessary, guide his hands to where you need them and you know, communicate.

This makes people feel animalistic! Start slow and soft and work your way up with one another. You don’t want to go full on vampire the first time out. Never

leave a mark unless they ask for it! Also make sure to venture out of the normal areas your mind would wander towards first. We get the neck and chest

are easy spots to chomp, but head south and give new locations some action.

Sex is about letting go and going wild, and for some that means letting go of all control. Being tossed around, told what to do - these are all great

ways to incorporate this. Either you’re the dominator or the dominated. Talk with your partner about which role you’d like to play in bed and have at it.