You're gonna have to learn how to find a happy in-between. Maybe you like museums and he likes hiking. Maybe you want to go get Chinese and he wants Italian. Maybe

you want to fly Delta and he wants to fly Spirit. Whatever the compromise is, you both should be able to accept the outcome! Traveling is all about taking a break from

your responsibilities and just enjoying life, right? Just make sure you're both meeting halfway, that's absolutely key.

Quite frankly, there's not a lot of time to be messing around. Should you compromise? Sure. But it's pretty damn hard to find a healthy compromise when you're not even saying

what you want. Get your feelings and thoughts out of the way so you can take some action!

At the end of the day, what's really important is you two having fun and making memories together. If something unfortunate happens, try to pass through it. Laugh things off.

Don't over-plan. Expect the worst. If you just stay calm and focus on you two instead of focusing on things you can't control, you'll feel a lot better.

Ideally, it should be both of you. The magical trip of your dreams isn't going to fall straight into your lap, you've got to plan in advance. Make sure to

communicate when buying tickets or booking rooms. And most importantly, make sure you're planning TOGETHER. When one person puts in all the work, the trip ends up being for one person, not

the couple.

This needs to be said. Every couple has a different 'couple personality,' and you need to think about this before booking your trip. Sure, basically anywhere in the world is

'fun,' but is it right for you two at the moment? Are you the Disneyland couple? The chill Portland couple? The adventurous New York couple? The romantic Paris couple? What city would fit your relationship

best at the moment?

Okay, this is a tough one. Technically, you should be spending most of your time together because, well, it is YOUR trip. However, time spent alone is important too. You don't

want all your memories of that city to be about that one person, and to be honest, they might not like the same activities as you. Go on a morning

walk at the beach by yourself. Take a bus ride. Go somewhere you wanted to go but he didn't.

You will both see each other at your worse, and that my friend, will change everything. You will either be so aggravated by them to the point where you realize

they aren't who you thought they were. Some people don't realize they're not compatible until they spend a few days together. However...things can also change for good. You might see

how much you love them for who they truly are, and that can be beautiful.