One of the most fun  things to do when you're alone is stalk your girl crushes. Check out absolutely breathtaking Instagram accounts of celebs such as Alexis Ren, Ariana Grande

or Nikki Minaj. You won't regret it.

Every girl stalks their boy crushes when they're alone. Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, Youtube. You name it, they stalk it. It's the best time to keep up to date on your

crush, and it's always rewarding to indulge in some eye candy.

You question your singleness to the point that you consider using a dating app like Tinder or Bumble. You get close, much closer than you want to admit, to downloading

it from the app store before you are hit with the reality check. Because at the end of the day, if you meet your husband on Tinder, what are you

going to tell the kids?

This is the perfect time to imagine a perfect date with your perfect crush. Cue the Alicia Keys music, set the tone to your favorite cafe down the street, and bring

in the adorable boy from English class. Dreaming up romantic scenarios is the perfect getaway from the blandness of your day-to-day.

When the internal dialogue becomes endless questioning, you know you're on your way down the rabbit hole. Why is no one Netflix and Chilling with me? Why is this the

sixth time I'm watching The Notebook this month? Why are all my friends in happy relationships? It's easy to fall into a pattern of soul-searching, just make sure it's not filled with

all negative thoughts! 

A class pass time is scrolling through old texts to consider the what if's. Whether it be scrolling through your psycho ex and congratulating yourself on swerving early on, or

timidly reading the texts between you and your english class crush, throwback texts are addicting. Scroll baby, scroll. 

Insert "You Belong With Me" here. As Swift so eloquently put it, "I'm in the room, it's a typical Tuesday night. I'm listening to the kind of music she doesn't like." A blessing of being alone in

your room, is whipping out the PJs, taking off the make up and blasting that song that everyone absolutely detests. So if Kidz Bop is what gets you going, you better

play it, dance to it and feel empowered. 

The hugest perk of being left alone is that you get to express yourself, full-fledged, without any limitations. This is the time that you can dwell, without anyone bothering you

or judging you. Blast your go-to sad music playlist loud enough so it covers your cries, and let everything go. 

That being said, once you're done moping around with that sad music playlist, it's time to bring out your inner Queen B. Take the time to embrace your sexiness and

confidence.  You should be feelin' yourself, because you slay. 

"The people I'm usually with are on a date," she realizes, as she spends Friday night in bed. Third-wheel, extra and block are words that come to mind. This realization

sucks, in all honesty, but awareness is key to change. Self love, baby, self love.

Alone time gives you the chance to reflect and think about your plans and goals. You may have the realization that you're not doing what you love. Or you may reflect

on how lucky you are to have amazing friends. Whatever it is, take advantage of your one-on-one time with your thoughts. The more you reflect, the faster you will learn to

embrace yourself, in all your weirdness .