Don't just try and please her with the boring old in-and-out motion. Instead, approach the opening from a diagonal. In an interview with Men's Fitness, sex expert Lora

Somoza said, "By going in diagonally—rather than straight in and out—there's more friction for clitorial stimulation, which is best, since that's how most women achieve orgasm."

You're not gonna be moving too quickly in this setup, but your hands are free to work those boobies. That stimulation may help the lady you're lucky enough to be

boning relax a bit. And relaxation is key to achieving the final destination. 

You'll love the view. But what's more is that in this position, the girl can help herself towards the Big O by using her hand. Less work for you. More

pleasure for her. It's a win-win!

You'll get super into looking down at her writhing in pleasure. According to sex therapist Dr. Madeleine M. Castellanos, in an article on SheKnows, "[Butterfly position] gives a wonderful angle for

cervical stimulation, with deep penetration that can produce some intense vaginal and uterine orgasms." 

We're so into this butterfly imagery! Now's her chance to look down at you putting in some much needed time at the...gym...

This is a great position for her to get

MAXIMUM pleasure. Just be sure to brush your teeth beforehand!

It's almost like a yoga pose. Sit criss-cross-apple-sauce and then use your hands to support you. Push down on the surface of the bed to really go deep. She'll love it,

and you've got a front row seat. 

You don't always have to go in reverse. Cowgirl is one of the best positions for clitoral orgasms. So lay down and let her ride. Power ranger costumes are recommended,

but not required. 

Great sex often comes down to connection. If she's not getting there, then talk about it. We know it can be awkward, but honestly, it's so much more awkward for

you if you can't make it happen for her. Play around. Try new positions. Choose your own adventure. Heck! Try incorporating a Wild Card cake like the one above. YUMMY!