"When I was 12, a boy told me that he could play connect the dots with all the zits on my face and spell out the alphabet."

"During a fight, my boyfriend told me I'd be a bad mom and that really stung." 

"'Can you just stop talking for a minute?' My boss said this to me when we were in the middle of a brainstorm session and he had the biggest attitude

when he said it. "

"My ex-boyfriend was watching me get ready and he said, 'You look better with no makeup.' Some people might take that as a compliment but I thought it was rude. I

want to feel like I look good no matter what's on my face."

"I was in a fight with my boyfriends' brother and he screamed at my boyfriend to 'get this black thing out of my house.' He was referring to me." 

"I was giving my best friend relationship advice when he said to me, 'You're going to end up alone because no one can handle you.' That was incredibly hurtful."

"A guy at a bar asked if I was a lesbian because he saw me turn another guy down who was trying to dance on me. He was dead ass

serious BTW."

"A guy once told me I had a big nose." 

"In junior high this guy told one of my guy friends that he thought f**king me would be like f**king a pillow. Honestly, probably even more rude of my friend

to tell me that." 

"You're not as fat as you think you are." 

"A guy I had just slept with told me he thought I'd be bad at dirty talk. It was playful, but not exactly nice." 

"My current boyfriend told me, accidentally, that his ex was the best he's ever had in the bedroom. I know he didn't purposely mean to hurt me, but it's something

I'm still insecure about."

"'You're pretty for a black girl.' What the hell does that even mean?"

"My boyfriend was complaining about how unemotional of a girlfriend I was and then he said, 'Can you just act like a girlfriend for 10 seconds?' I almost slapped him

in the face." 

"If you can't c*m with me, there's something wrong with you." 

"No offense, but if you got pregnant, I'd leave you." 

"You'd look so hot if you didn't wear glasses."

"I slept with this guy in college who I had been crushing on since middle school. After we finished he said, and I quote, 'I knew you'd be a good fuck.'

He meant it as a compliment, but I thought it was really creepy and inappropriate." 

"Why are you such a heartless bitch?!"

"I met this guy on Bumble and when we went on a date, the first thing he said was 'you look different in person.' He didn't mean it in a

good way, though, and that was obvious."

"This wasn't a guy I was dating, he was just a friend I hadn't seen a while. He told me I looked like I gained weight and it seriously hurt

my feelings." 

"No offense ,but I don't think you'll ever make as much money as me."

"I'm half Mexican, but I have red hair, pale skin, and no freckles. A lot of people don't believe me when I tell them my race. There was one guy

in particular who REFUSED to believe me. He kept telling me to 'speak Spanish' to prove it."

"I was drinking with my coworker who I had always been close with and he was super drunk and said, 'If you gave me one night, I'd have you switching

sides.' I'm a lesbian and he knew that, so I thought it was f**ked up that he'd even say something so ignorant like that." 

"My boyfriend would always finish before me and one night he asked if I was sure I wasn't a lesbian. All because it took me longer than five seconds to finish." 

"Feminists are dirty hippies."

"Why are you so awkward in bed all the time?"

"Have you had work done recently?"

"I was eating when the guy I was dating at the time asked, 'Are you sure you should eat that?'"

"I want to see those big knockers go up and down while I'm deep up in it."

"This guy once told me I didn't have a sense of humor."

"When my ex-boyfriend and I broke up, his friend called me and said, 'Someone like you will never find anyone as good as him.' That bothered me so much. It made

me feel worthless."

"Every guy I've ever met has said something like this to me: 'Why are you being so dramatic?' Shut up!"

"My male coworker is always the first one to comment on my looks in the morning. He's constantly telling me I look tired which is honestly the last thing I

ever want to hear. He says it all the time."

"This guy at the bar called me a grenade and I was like 'Oh, okay Pauly D.'"

"I'm 40 and I have no interest in children. Never have. And still, people ask me when I'm going to have kids. It's aggravating, to say the least." 

"When my ex and I would get into a fight he'd say, 'You're acting just like my crazy ex.'"

"I had a boyfriend when I was younger who'd tell me I talked too much. Totally ruined my self-esteem when I was growing up." 

"Why don't you smile more?"

"F**k off you ugly whore."