Gallery: You Love Him. AND He's Selfish. 6 Ways To Cope.

Have you ever had a morning where you rolled over, looked at your man and thought “How did I get here?” It’s not that you don’t love him. It’s that who you thought you were falling for isn’t exactly what you ended up with.

The thing is, he’s selfish. It took a while to put two and two together, but that’s what it equals out to. You suggest going to a restaurant for dinner and he shuts it down because he doesn’t like that kind of food. You drop hints about what you want for your birthday and he totally forgets. Even the sex. He’s not out to make sure you’re pleased, especially if he “got his” first.

What do you do when you’re in love with a man who is primarily concerned with his own needs and his own interests? It takes some doing, but there are some things that can make staying with him more bearable and beneficial too.